Birthday Ramblings

Yesterday was my birthday.  About half way through the morning I mentioned this to the kids.  It was so sweet...Very heart felt my son asked, "awe, mom, why didn't you tell us right away this morning?"  They then proceeded to sing happy birthday to me.  That was probably my favorite part of the day.  They were so sincere and they were so excited for me because it was my birthday.  Moments like that make mommy hood so much better than having the time and money for vacations and pricey clothes etc.

Later we all went to Cam's last baseball game and then went out for ice cream with my mom.  It's not something we often do, so was enjoyed by all.  When I tucked Cam in he asked if I had a nice birthday.  Again, so sweet he would ask.  I sincerely did!  The little family moments made it special.  No bells or whistles needed.  I loved that we went and did something together that we don't often do.

This morning Austyn asked if today was my second birthday.  Confused, I told her no.  And then I figured out what she meant.  The kids have their "real" birthday and then the birthday party day.  It kind of made me giggle  a little;)

Last year for Cam's birthday we took him out to eat.  Anywhere he wanted-he got to choose.  I think that instead of gifts this year we will do that for the kids.  It makes for a special day for them.  They get to pick and have a dinner focused on, for, and about them.  In years to come I think those memories will be remembered more than yet another gift.  I just tend to feel that they get so much!  And sadly, most of it doesn't seem to matter much in the long run.  They lose interest, go into another phase, lose it, or break it.  I would rather focus on memories and relationships and making them feel special!

What birthday traditions does your family do/have?